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Your brain uses neuroplasticity to create new neuropathways that can be associated with new habits and beliefs.

Rewire Your Brain to Get Organized: Neuroplasticity in Action

Posted by Carolyn on
 October 21, 2025
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Mindfulness allow us to notice habits generated through subconscious thoughts and beliefs. Once noticed, neuroplastiity allows us to change our behaviour.Have you ever wished you could just be more organized without feeling like it’s a constant struggle? The good news: your brain is capable of change. By leveraging neuroplasticity, you can make organization an easier, more natural habit.

Neuroplasticity is your brain’s ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life. This doesn’t just help with memory or learning a new skill.  It also allows you to retrain your habits, including how you approach organization. A recent InsideHook article notes, London taxi drivers’ brains grew in the hippocampus over years of navigating the city’s streets, showing that consistent practice changes the brain structurally.

What is Neuroplasticity and Why Does it Matter?

Neuroplasticity is the brain’s remarkable ability to rewire itself by forming new neural connections throughout life. This doesn’t just help you memorize a new skill or learn a language—it allows you to retrain habits that may have seemed “hardwired,” including how you handle clutter, manage tasks, or maintain systems in your business. Studies show that consistent practice can physically change the structure of the brain. For example, London taxi drivers develop a larger hippocampus over years of navigating complex streets, illustrating that sustained mental effort leads to measurable brain growth.

The late Dr. James Doty, previously a clinical professor of neurosurgery at Stanford University and founder of the Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education, extensively studied how our minds can influence our reality. In his book Mind Magic: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and How It Changes Everything, Doty explained how practices like attention, meditation, visualization, and compassion can change our brain structures, allowing us to move through the world in ways that help us see clearly and realize our dreams.

Whether you’re trying to clear the clutter from your home, streamline your workflow, or get consistent with marketing tasks, understanding how your brain forms habits gives you a roadmap to success.

Here’s how you can harness these principles in your daily life:

1. Neuroplasticity and Mindfulness: Awareness is the First Step

Before you can change a habit, or the beliefs ingrained into your subconscious, you have to notice it. You have to be aware that the beliefs exist. Mindfulness allows you to become aware of routines that come from subconscious thought patterns or beliefs.  Although the book is listed as a biography, the late Dr. James Doty’s landmark book Into the Magic Shop outlines clearly both the mindfulness strategies for changing beliefs and the neuroscience behind it. For example, do you automatically pile items instead of putting them away? Do you avoiding starting a project because you are afraid it won’t be perfect? Do you avoid making yourself and your business visible because you are afraid you might fail – or be successful? By noticing these habits without judgment, you create a window for neuroplastic change. Mindful awareness is your first step toward rewiring your brain to support great organization of your home, office, to-do list or business activities.

Woman with headphones looking at phone while sitting and patting dog showing a calm, organized life2. Neuroplasticity and Fun: Everyday Challenges and Novelty

Your brain thrives on novelty and challenge. Everyday activities that stretch your mind — from solving puzzles to taking a new route on your walk — stimulate neuroplasticity. Traveling is a perfect example: navigating unfamiliar places forces your brain to adapt to new patterns, strengthening memory and problem-solving pathways. You don’t need a plane ticket to reap the benefits.  Small changes in your daily routine, like changing your walking or driving route, engage your brain in the same way. Experiment with a digital app to use it differently. Change the time of routine activities in your day. Or simply, change how and where you eat lunch.

3. Locking in Neuroplasticity: Emotion, Interest, and Positive Associations

Our brains learn most effectively when experiences are tied to emotion, interest, or pleasure. Music, for instance, can prime your brain to form stronger connections.  This is why pairing tasks with enjoyable stimuli makes new habits stick. Linking desired behaviors, like putting items away immediately or scheduling your day intentionally, with positive feelings makes them more likely to enter your subconscious and become automatic over time. Music, smell, taste are all senses that generate emotional responses based on previous experiences. These can be tied to activity to help you build new neuropathways and therefore habit. For example, play a favourite group of songs from a very happy time in your life to create an upbeat mood while you are sorting clothes. Drinking your favourite tea or coffee while working on a project can have the same impact.

Putting It All Together: 3 Tips to Apply These Strategies

  1. Be Mindful of Small Habits: Pause before you act and notice what your brain is doing automatically. Catch the “default” behaviors and replace them with intentional ones.

  2. Add Novelty to Routine Tasks: Change your environment, rearrange spaces, or try new methods for tasks you usually do on autopilot — this challenges your brain and strengthens new neural pathways.

  3. Pair Tasks with Positive Stimuli: Listen to music you enjoy, light a favorite candle, or give yourself a mini reward while practicing new organizational, productivity or marketing activities. Emotion strengthens memory and habit formation.

By incorporating mindfulness, novelty, and positive associations, you’re not just organizing your environment — you’re training your brain to support the behaviors you want, making organization feel more natural and less of a chore. The more you practice, the easier it becomes, and the more your brain rewards you with clarity, focus, and confidence.

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Gratitude is a Mindset Power Tool

Posted by Carolyn on
 October 16, 2025
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The Power of Gratitude: Calm Your Mind, Get Organized, and Create Success 🧠✨

We’re in the season of gratitude. Canadian Thanksgiving has just passed, and American Thanksgiving is just around the corner. This is the perfect time to explore how gratitude can transform more than just your mood.

Gratitude is akin to a powerful mindset tool. Whether decluttering, looking for more productivity, or running a business, gratitude changes your brain chemistry. It reduces fear and helps you move from chaos to clarity.

The Neuroscience of Gratitude

Gratitude isn’t just a “nice thought.” Research shows it has measurable effects on the brain and nervous system:

  • Gratitude practice activates brain regions associated with reward and well-being, reinforcing positive emotions (PositivePsychology.com).

  • It helps reduce stress and promote resilience, improving emotional regulation and overall mental health (Baylor University, 2024).

  • Gratitude can also calm the amygdala, the part of your brain responsible for fear and the fight–flight–freeze response, lowering stress hormones like cortisol and creating space to think clearly and act with confidence (Forbes, 2024).

This means when you approach organizing, productivity, or business decisions with gratitude as a powerful tool, your brain literally shifts from fear to clarity. Emotional attachment loosens, stress reduces, and decision-making becomes more confident.

When your nervous system is calm, organizing feels easier, productivity flows naturally, and business success becomes more attainable — all without the constant stress or pressure that so often holds us back.

3 Ways to Use Gratitude as a Mindset Power Tool

1. Get Organized with Gratitude
When decluttering or reworking a space, pause and thank the items for how they have supported you. Seeing gratitude as a power tool reduces fear and emotional attachment. This makes it easier to release what no longer serves you.

2. Be More Productive with Gratitude
Start your day by naming three things that are working — in your schedule, systems, or in yourself. Gratitude reduces stress. It also improves focus. Together, these allow you to prioritize tasks from a calm, clear perspective rather than from panic or pressure.

3. Build Your Business with Gratitude
Instead of worrying about what’s not happening fast enough, thank yourself for every small step and every client who’s trusted you. Using gratitude as a mindset tool rewires your brain to notice progress, not problems — and that builds momentum. From this state, you make braver, more aligned decisions. As a result, you attract more of what you want.

A Final Thought

Gratitude isn’t just about saying “thank you.” It’s a powerful neurological reset — one that quiets fear, builds resilience, and strengthens your belief in what’s possible.

So as you move through this season, try using this gratitude practice as a free, mindset power tool. And remember: the more you ground yourself in gratitude, the more peace, productivity, and prosperity you invite into your life. 💛

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Big Power in Micro Steps

Posted by Carolyn on
 August 27, 2025
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corner of day timer with to-do list title at top of page against blue folder and coffee cup on desk. Power in micro goalsIt started with a challenge…

and ended with using micro steps to accomplish 17 trips from point A to point B over 9 weeks. It would have been 18 if I hadn’t had the flu.

If you have been hanging around this blog for awhile, you know that I coach alpine skiing during the winter.  So what does that have to do with micro steps?

This year, due to maintenance requirements, the coaches’ meeting location was changed from one building (South lodge) to another (North lodge). The challenge was that my boots, helmet, extra gear, skis etc all  live at South. The meeting was called each Saturday and Sunday morning BEFORE the ski lifts opened. Which meant that

 

Could it be that micro tasks could be even more successful than a daily 15 minute declutter routine? I say yes; I think they can and that we ought to all jump on this bandwagon. Micro tasks could possibly even replace the 15 minute declutter routine.

How it Started

Mindlessly, I was stared at the shelf beside my desk. I had done so countless times before, while thinking through yet another online tech challenge. I have no recollection of sorting out the tech issue. It was clear there were things on the shelf I had not used in years and was never likely to use. In a split second, I decided to clear the shelf, wipe it off and remove to a donation pile those things I would not use. Like the audio CD for learning Spanish. I no longer have a CD player on my computer or portable device to play it.

In less than 5 minutes I had a clean shelf that was now half empty, a small bag of denotable items and a few items in recycling and garbage. The result of my micro task was a very satisfying declutter. The shelf is half empty, clean and can be used more effectively.

Micro Tasks

I soon determined that micro tasks could be done almost anywhere, almost any time. I’ve made a game of it. Just this morning, while waiting on the front door step for my son to load the car before leaving, I clipped back the trailing plants in the planter. The micro task took 5 minutes. Later while waiting for a video clip to upload, I wiped the windows sill, rinsed the stained-glass ornaments, took away the ones I no longer wanted and put everything back. Another 5 minutes.

I’ve defined micro task as a 5-10 minute task that can be completed with little or no additional equipment and contributes to clutter free living. Two days ago I took the ski jackets out of the front hall cupboard, inspected for rips and tears and transported to our off-season storage rack in the basement. I’ve got my eye on a shoe rack with 5 pairs of flip flops that haven’t left the rack in awhile – maybe 2 years. While waiting for the kettle to boil, I can scoop up the flip flops, inspect for integrity and bag for donation. This last task makes use of the concept of time layering along with micro tasks.

The Game

Try it.

  1. Look for 5 minutes either between other projects or activities or while waiting for something else to happen (standing in line)
  2. Look around for a 5 minute task that is super easy to accomplish. For example, while waiting for the pasta water to boil, take the cutlery out of the cutlery tray, wash the tray and replace the cutlery.
  3. Make a game out of finding a micro task that doesn’t require any extra equipment (except maybe a cleaning cloth).
  4. Make sure that the task contributes to either decluttering or getting something done. For example, I filed the top few items on my paper filing pile waiting for yet another video to upload,.
  5. See how many of these you can do in one day.

The Benefit

Five minutes may not seem like alot of time. Those 5 minute tasks, however, all add up. The paper requires filing. The shelf requires decluttering and the flip flops require a new home.  Add all those micro tasks together, all those 5 minute games, and eventually, you have a clutter free house.

Try it, and let me know how it goes.

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How to Organize Your Out of Control Email Inbox

Posted by Carolyn on
 January 31, 2025
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Is your email inbox out of control? Are you trying to stay organized and feeling overwhelmed when the next batch of email arrives? There is no doubt that staying on top of inbox digital clutter is a challenge with the ease that email can be sent and received.  As Brendon Burchard reminds us in The Charge your email inbox is NOT your To Do list. In fact, your email inbox is usually someone else’s to do list and if you have receive their email their to do is done and they think your’s is just begun.

Here is a strategy to organize your email inbox on an ongoing basis as well as getting on top of the out of control inbox.

Control the Email When it Arrives 

As a professional organizer I am frequently asked how I recommend people stay on top of their email.  There are a variety of strategies to organize and email inbox, and manage the email when you first open it. 

  1. Use folders to file by topic or person – there is no right answer it depends on how you think. I think by time frame so I use sender and time for my folders
  2. Flag action items right away. If you can accomplish the action in under 15 minutes then take the time to do it. If it needs to be scheduled into your calendar, right it down and flag the emailing action items for example. 

desk owner is trying to get things done, pink notebook, pink flowers on white desk,When the Email Inbox is Out of Control

When it comes to the emails that have been left in your Inbox too long here is a process I call the 10 percent solution.

  1. Pick a time of day to commit 10 minutes to email management.  Stick to this commitment until that Inbox is under control.
  2. Change the sorting order of the Inbox.  If you normally sort by date, try sorting by sender or subject.  This has the impact of immediately changing the context of the emails.  With a different context sorting is easier.
  3. Check the total number of emails and then identify what 10% would be.  This is your target; the number of emails you are going to file or delete in your designated 10 minutes.  For example, if you have 1000 emails sitting in your Inbox, try and remove 100 at the first sitting.
  4. Quickly scroll through the list and try and delete as many as possible i.e. the easy ones you know are no longer needed.  If you get stuck or bogged down, switch the sort again and keep going.  Try sorting by email topic.  This will sometimes allow you to delete the backlog of emails on one particularly topic and then the last one, with all the accompanying conversation, will be the email to file.You will be surprised how easy it is to remove 100 emails when you have changed the context.

Practice these strategies regularly to organize your email inbox and keep it organized.

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Learning Through Awareness: Does it Work?

Posted by Carolyn on
 November 1, 2024
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woman sitting on heels on a dock beside a quiet body of water with eyes closed - as if meditatingIs self-awareness a useful teaching tool? By being more mindful can were learn new skills or habits through awareness?

It may sound simple but I say we can. In fact, I believe that learning through awareness is one of the most powerful tools we can use to change behaviour and  develop new habits.

The Issue: A Lack of Awareness

Virtual organizing has underlined for the organizing industry the importance of recognizing unconscious behaviour in our clients. We all develop habits – subconscious behaviours that we regularly repeat based on the same stimuli. Often, we don’t even realize we do them. Drivers sometimes report driving home and not even remembering the drive because they were preoccupied other thoughts. Meanwhile, their subconscious brain made all the decisions necessary to drive to home while their conscious thoughts were preoccupied.

When the subconscious brain is engaged, we often aren’t even noticing what we are doing. When was the last time you thought about tying a shoe lace, taking a shower or brushing. your teeth. Our dentists might like us all to be more aware during that latter exercise to be more thorough. Many people say they do their best thinking in the shower. Why not? For most adults the shower process is habitual, something the subconscious mind takes care of. That leaves the conscious mind to tackle the next scheduling or budgeting challenge in your day.

But what about when those habits are not helpful and we don’t realize the habit exists or the impact of our behaviour. This is where a professional organizer and productivity coach, becomes the detective. I pull out my figurative magnifying glass and look for subconscious behaviour that undermines goal completion, leaves clutter on horizontal surfaces and results in procrastination.

The Challenge: It’s Subconsciouswoman with back to camera sitting on yoga mat beside a body of water on a beach.

TT, a client who recently engaged my assistance for a move, previously lived in a very small, junior 1 bedroom apartment. I helped her move to a more spacious unit where she could set up her small business office in a corner of the living room. In the previous unit, TT would have to stand up with her laptop, cross the room, balance the computer on a bookshelf, connect the cable to the printer and hit the return key to print an item. The unit was just too small to have the printer closer to the computer. In the new unit the printer cable and printer were right beside TT’s right arm. What happened the first time TT went to print an item? She found herself picking up the computer and walking to the other side of the room. Her subconscious brain still working on the assumption the printer was across the room.

When I pointed out to TT what she had done, we both had a good chuckle and then got to work using the principles of neuroplasticity to lay down a new neuropathway. The new pathway was that TT would turn to the right, pick up the printer cable, plug it into her laptop and print whatever was required.

The Solution: Develop Awarenesswoman sitting in field looking upward as if thoughtful.

TT’s awareness of her habit allowed her to develop a new habit.

When one becomes aware, they can change their behaviour. This is where the learning through awareness comes in. With a conscious effort to be more mindful, one can become aware of any habit that is undermining goal achievement. I call these tripping habits. We can learn to change those tripping habits when we are aware that  we are doing them.

The How: Become Mindful

How can you learn to change your tripping habits through awareness? By becoming more mindful. Do some research on your own behaviour simply by consciously noticing what you are doing.

For example, if you are constantly loosing your car keys and delayed each morning trying to find them, become mindful, and more aware, of what you do with your keys when you walk in the door each day. Do you drop them in a coat? In a purse? On a horizontal surface? Maybe your hands are often full so you subconsciously drop them anywhere to free up your hands. Once you know what you are doing, you can retrain your brain to subconsciously do something else with the keys (like drop them in a bowl or on a hook) so that they are always present.

Use an experimental approach; don’t be too attached to the outcome simply notice what you are doing. Once you know what the unconscious behaviour is, you have the power to change it for one that gives you behaviour you do want.

Awareness is a simple, inexpensive tool that we all possess that can help us learn. It can show us why we are chronically late, always early or habitually loosing our keys. And because it shows us our own behaviour, which we have the power to change, it can be a powerful learning tool.

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The Power of Accountability and Body-Doubling for Productivity

Posted by Carolyn on
 September 24, 2024
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desk owner is trying to get things done, pink notebook, pink flowers on white desk,Accountability and body doubling are two powerful strategies that can significantly boost productivity, especially for people with ADHD. As a certified professional organizer and productivity coach, I offer both services to help you stay focused and achieve your goals. But which one is right for you?

Accountability involves setting goals and having someone (like me!) check in to ensure you’re staying on track. This service is ideal if you’re self-driven but need external motivation. Knowing someone will follow up can give you that extra push to complete tasks, whether it’s decluttering, organizing, or sticking to new productivity habits.

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Body doubling, on the other hand, involves having someone physically or virtually present while you work or workout. The body double doesn’t do the task for you but creates an environment of focus and shared energy. It’s perfect for those who struggle with distractions or need that extra sense of partnership—making it particularly helpful for ADHD. It is like having a training partner, whether or not they are training.

3 Key Tips for Choosing Between Accountability and Body Doubling:

  1. 3 women working at a rectangular desk providing each other with accountabilityKnow your work style: If you thrive on independence but struggle with follow-through, accountability might be your best bet. If you work better with someone nearby, body doubling can offer that sense of shared focus.
  2. Consider the task: Simple, straightforward tasks like email sorting may benefit from accountability, whereas overwhelming or emotional tasks, like decluttering sentimental items, may be easier with body doubling.
  3. Experiment: It’s okay to try both! Some people find that body doubling works well for certain tasks, while accountability is better for ongoing projects.

To help you experience the benefits of these services firsthand, I’m offering an introductory sessions free of charge until the end of September. A group is gathering to provide community accountability AND body doubling to help each other get a few things done. Here I the link to sign up — don’t miss out!

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The Successful To-Do List

Posted by Carolyn on
 September 3, 2024
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Looking for the successful To-Do List? Does a successful To-Do List even exist?

Yes, it does. However, there are key factors to make it successful.  Many years ago, I prepared this list of seven factors as part of a “Where are they all” series. Here is how to check off all seven.

1. Are all your To-Do Lists in one place?

Let’s start with how many To-Do Lists you have and where you keep them all. Are they all in one room? Frequently, clients complain they can’t keep track and the lists end up spread out across the house, office or desk.

Put all your lists, if you have more than one, in one place.

2. If they are in one room, are they all in one location in that room?person writing "to-do list" with ink pen on in small note book

Ideally, you use only one, or a maximum of two lists. If you are using two, the first is a brain dump of all the things you can imagine you need to do. This list is a way of emptying your brain and to stop the thoughts from swirling. The second is the short list of things to do TODAY. Give your lists a designated home and make sure they get back there.

3. In that location, are they on one piece of paper, one file, one book or in one file folder?

There is not one single, perfect method to contain the successful To-Do List. There are however, more helpful strategies. I recommend keeping the list in a small notebook. If you identify as a woman or keep a purse, ideally the notebook fits in that purse. It ought to be small enough to carry with you and large enough to keep track of the list, plus any additional to do’s that come up during the day. Using a planner serves the same purpose and keeps the information with your daily activities. It doesn’t matter if this is digital or paper version. Keep it together.

4. Are similar or related items actions listed together?Coaching can support productivity

One of the benefits of writing down the action items, is that related items can be identified. When our thoughts swirl in our head, these feel like unrelated, multiplying action items. Written down, those same items may only be one action with some qualifiers. For example the action item might be “pick up the birthday cake”. The qualifier might be “before 4 pm” or “and dropped off at party venue” or “pick up candles”.

5. Does each item start with a verb?

I call this “verbing up your To-Do List”. Our brains receive clear direction when the action item begins with a verb. If your action relates to getting organized, you might use words like sort, clear, purge, empty, or reduce. Your brain understands the clear action word and knows what to do. Using a verb to start each item removes confusion. On my To-Do List today is “complete weekly blog post on the successful to-do list”.

6. Are your To-Do List items sorted by date identified, date due, level of importance, level of urgency, relevance to your objectives?

Not all to do’s are created equal. Does your list help your brain understand which item to tackle first? Using the 2 list method, the “capture everything” list is just a brain dump of all your thoughts. It can be useful to sort this list by area of your life e.g. work, health and fitness. corner of day timer with to-do list title at top of page against blue folder and coffee cup on desk.The today list represents items that are scheduled for today, are urgent or time sensitive. If you plan your time using time blocking, your to do’s for today are scheduled into the time blocks.

7. Do you know when the items have been accomplished?

An effective goal is one that is clearly measurable. A measurable goal means you know exactly when it has been accomplished. The same is true for the successful To-Do List items. With the birthday cake example above, you know exactly when that item is complete; it’s 4 pm and either you have dropped the cake at the venue or you haven’t. Once again, items written with a verb, and built-in completion details, provide your brain with clarity. These items are easier to accomplish. Accomplishing tasks is faster when your entire To-Do List is built with clear action items.

The successful To-Do List is easy to keep track of, easy to follow and contains clear, actionable items.  “Verbed up”, your brain receives clear information about what it needs to direct you to do and when that task is done.

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Siblings Help a Parent Downsize

Posted by Carolyn on
 August 21, 2024
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When siblings help a parent downsize, all kinds of interesting things happen. Mostly often, family dynamics come to play and life can get complicated. However, its doesn’t need to be difficult.

The Parent Downsize Backstorywoman with grey hair drinking tea and taking to younger woman as if talking about downsizing

Both my significant other (SO) and I have had parents downsize in the past 10-12 years. My own father passed away four years ago and my siblings and I resolved that estate together. My mother-in-law (MIL) has recently given up housekeeping and moved into an assisted living, retirement environment. While she left the family home over 11 years ago, there was much to pare down from her apartment. Since my SO is one of 6 siblings, there was lots of discussion over the paring down.

How do Siblings Help a Parent Downsize?

Is there a perfect or best way for sibling to help a parent downsize? The simple answer to this is “no, there isn’t”.

There are, however, several good ways. Typically the challenges arise around location of the siblings relative to the downsize location, the number of siblings and decision-making strategies and the fairness of dispersing objects. Where there are many siblings, inevitably at least two want the same picture over the mantel. Another scenario is that one or more siblings want nothing – along with nothing to do with the project. Then others – or usually one other – is left carrying the full load of supporting the parent(s).

Professional organizers see these issues so often is it commonplace. While each family feels like its issues are unique, most of the projects have some very common themes. Here are some ideas to help you through the process.

Who Runs the Show?woman in blue shirt making a phone call as if talking to parent about downsizing

Ideally, one sibling will take lead. This may be the first point of conflict; which sibling will that be? The one that’s closest or has the time tend to be the winners.

Alternative, if several sibling want leadership roles, divide up the downsize into sections. Siblings take responsibility for the section about which they are most passionate. One might be concerned about family photos. Another might be concerned about jewelry and a third about books or dishes. Still another might have strong feelings about the movers, packers or using a professional organizer to assist.

When one or more siblings are geographically located away from the downsize.

The challenge here is to keep everyone informed. Regular checkins using FaceTime, Zoom, WhatApp chat, audio or video all help. if you are sending pictures, do them by category and in small groups. Use the edit function in your photo app on your phone to have the distant sibling identify those items they are interested in or have questions about. The great thing about photos is they can also be grouped by Albums so each siblings interest can be slotted into a separate album.

Who Get’s What?family members gather around laptop for meeting to discuss helping parent downsize

Whether resolving an estate resolution or a helping a parent downsize, how do families decide who get’s to keep what? There are inevitably items that are being shed by the parents or in the estate. That is the definition of downsize. Finding a reasonable way to distribute is challenging at best. Here are a few strategies to try:

  1. The parent has previously decided and the decision is imbedded in a will or list or items have already, previously been marked. This is the easiest. Tip: remember that once an item has been “gifted” it is there to do with as they wish, included shedding themselves. The general rule of thumb is “if you don’t want what Mom has given you, please let the siblings know so that if someone else wants it they can have it.” This sometimes lead to “swapping” which often works well.
  2. The items to be shed are given an overall financial value (fictitious or real. This strategy works best when it is close to the real value). Each sibling is given fictitious funds, a percentage of the total based on the number of siblings. If the items being reallocated equal $1,000 and there are four siblings, each sibling is allocated $2500. Finally each person identifies the items they would like to have equalling their $2500. Where there is competition, try swapping. Last resort there is always a game of “rock, paper scissors”.
  3. None of the items are valued. Instead, distribution is done on the basis of emotional attachment. Each sibling identifies those items in which they are interested ranked 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc. Swapping and trading is done only where there is competition for the same item at the same rank.

Last Items

After siblings have been allocated their pieces, offer the rest to friends or family. These individuals are far more likely to be emotionally related to the items than anyone on the open market. What is left can be sold at auction (live or online), sold in the open market (Craigslist, Kijiji, Facebook Marketplace) donated to charity, offered to the up-cycle market or – last resort – discarded to recycle or landfill.

I have seen all strategies 1 – 3 used in several families over the years. In my experience, the most successful are 1 and 3. The second strategy works, but is problematic as siblings compete for dollars.

Siblings who want to help a parent downsize are often met with frustration and lots of work. In my experience, however, they are also met with tremendous gratitude on the part of their parent(s).

If this is your next project, good luck and let me know how it goes.

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Reasons for Procrastination: And what to do about them

Posted by Carolyn on
 August 12, 2024
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woman biting pencil staring at computer looking worried and frantic.The reasons for procrastination vary. I call them procrastination gremlins. Many of us have our own reasons for procrastination or our own list of gremlins. You may be silently thinking of your own.

However, just because procrastination exists, doesn’t mean it can’t be managed. Here are the top four reasons for procrastination that my clients encounter and how to combat them.

Reason 1: Perfectionism

A procrastinator is often a perfectionist. The perfectionist is afraid to start something for fear it won’t be perfect. There is nothing wrong with high standards. They can lead to wonderfully creative and high quality work – IF the “thing” gets accomplished or finished. If, on the other hand, it never get’s started, perfectionism is simply a stumbling block to wonderful work.

The Solutions:

  • The mantra “done is better than perfect” is a great start. Get started to that you have lots of time to make it good enough which is much closer to perfect than not done at all. 
  • Try breaking the project into small enough steps that you can feel great about the standard achieved in each step AND get it finished.

Reason 2: The Task is Overwhelmingpile of black and white photographs in no apparent order

Procrastination can occur when a tasks seems overwhelming. If you don’t know where or how to accomplish a task, it’s very hard to get started or finished. Sometimes even the research to figure out the task or project is too daunting.

The Solutions:

  • Hold off on the research. Write down WHY you want to accomplish the project. What’s in it for you? When the project is finished, what else can you accomplish? This will help to drive up your motivation.
  • Break down the project or task into what you DO know. What would it take to get one step of this project on your to-do list? The research you need to do will be clear.
  • Start research into how to do the project but consider it an experiment. In other words, hold off on any judgement. What you gain is simply information on how to accomplish the task or project. This will help you see the project in manageable chunks while giving you the information you need.
  • Figure out the very first step. Start there. Often, the next step will be clear once you take that first step.

Reason 3: Fear of Criticismwoman sitting on heels on a dock beside a quiet body of water with eyes closed - as if meditating

This nasty gremlin is a distant cousin of Perfectionism. The difference is that in perfectionism you criticize yourself.  Fear of criticism is worrying about what other people might think. You may have real, tangible experience with criticism and feel quite certain that particular people will say something critical and negative – regardless of how well you accomplish the task or project.

The Solutions:

  • Some mindset work can be helpful here. The reality is that you can’t control what or how other people think. You can only control yourself. Try working on a Can Do mindset and recognize that some people will be negative and critical no matter what you do.
  • Focus on what the project means to YOU. What does accomplishment allow you to do? What does completion of the task allow you to do afterward? How will you feel if it is accomplished.

Reason 4: Fear of FailureScrabble letters spelling the word Failure on a wooden background with other random letters around

You’ve tried this project before and never been successful. Or the opposite is true. This is a task or project that takes you way outside your comfort zone and you are afraid you won’t be successful.

This gremlin is cousin to Fear of Criticism and shows up when confidence is low. The task or project maybe too big or unfamiliar.  Skills or knowledge might be missing. And, you are worried what people will think or say if/when you fail.

The Solutions:

  • Try and remember that learning and growth are what happen when we are outside our comfort zone.
  • Break the project or task into small pieces. Make the first step small enough you are guaranteed to be successful.
  • Revisit the WHY of your task or project. Keep your motivation high.
  • Find additional inspiration to take you outside your comfort zone. Maybe you need a hero who has done a similar project or task.

Everyone has their reasons for procrastination. Use these solutions for your procrastination gremlins.

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Simplify: More than Minimalism and Shedding

Posted by Carolyn on
 August 7, 2024
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Recently, I had an opportunity to simplify a few things in my own life. With a volunteer term completed, I transitioned responsibilities over to my successor. Although still in a related volunteer role, I was relieved of a handful of duties. My calendar was emptier and my time freer. That’s when I realized that to simplify is more than simply shedding or trying to minimize the stuff in our lives. It is also a key step in getting and staying organized.

The Difference: Simplifying vs Sheddinglarge male deer with a 10 point rack of antlers

In the world of professional organizers, shedding usually means releasing or letting go. Just like male deer shed their antlers before the winter, and make room for a stronger rack to replace it, so do we shed items that no longer serve us. We let go of things we don’t use, like or need. Or sometimes to make room for something better.

Simplifying on the other hand, is more about making things easier. Processes get simplified to with less steps to make them easier, more manageable or shorter.

I once had a client who needed support decluttering and setting up an office after a move. In that process we also simplified the space and workflow so that everything the client needed to work with on a day-to-day basis was within arms reach, or certainly a short swivel chair swing (technical, organizer term “chair swing”) of her work space.

What About Minimalism?

Minimalism on the other hand, is about shedding a lot of things. It really answers the questions “how much can I do without?” or “how can I so more with as little as possible?”. Not everyone is happy to even attempt minimalist thinking or living.

Behind the Scenes

While it is true, having completed my volunteer position term, I was shedding duties and handing them to my successor. And that felt like simplifying things.

However, I had also been reviewing digital files and moving some to our shared online filing cabinet. While shedding the files in one part of the digital world, I was streamlining in another part.

The great part about shedding is it leaves space of new things. I now had time and space in my calendar and business life to refocus back to this blog, my newsletter and having some fun on social media.

Shedding, Simplifying and Organizing

It takes all three to get and stay organized. Try these tips to get you started:hat, coat and straw bag hanging on wall hooks

  1. Start with shedding. Be the deer in late fall and shed what no longer serves you, what will hinder your progress in your goals or what you no longer use.
  2. Once the shedding is done, how can your work flow or processes be simplified? How can steps be reduced to accomplish the same goal. For one client, I simply mounted 2 removable hooks on the wall beside the outside door of the kitchen. One was for her daughter’s lunch bag the other was for the coat.  These hooks completely simplified the “what to do with the lunch box/coat” after school. She would simply move the hook up as her daughter grew.
  3. Finally, ensure that each item has a home. This home needs to be easy to access (retrieval) to easy to put the item back (storage). When storage and retrieval are easy, you’ve likely simplified and will be able to stay organized.
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