Organizing is about balance: enough stuff – not too little, not too much; enough stuff in your time available – not too little, not too much. Its also about having the right stuff at the right time in balance with the priorities of your life. As many of you know, I work with a significant number of hoarding clients. Much of our work together involves helping them balance the stuff in their lives with other priorities.
So when one of my clients called to cancel our session this week in favour of supporting his family through his newborn grandson’s critical state following a difficult delivery, I knew his priorities were in the right order.
The pictures we see of perfect, beautiful, organized rooms in magazines are exactly that: beautiful rooms designed to stimulate your creativity to apply colours, furniture, materials, tools and strategies in your own home. As a professional organizer, I encourage my clients to see those pictures as inspiration – not a target. We strive for good enough, not perfect.
The difference between perfect magazine pictures and a well organized home, are the wonderful priorities like new grandchildren that are so much more important than the stuff that can overwhelm our homes. By getting a grip on the stuff, we make room for our other priorities; the grandchildren, the children, the friends.
I will keep my client’s grandson and family in my prayers – his stuff can wait but will soon have to make room for that grandson to visit.